"My STBXW is emotional and tries to win arguments by making grand, vague and accusatory statements." She also tries to justify her actions by convincing herself of things that are no longer true.
"My plan is to remain unemotional and have facts and figures available to counter any accusation she makes." I'm providing sound facts and figures...just gotta hope there is some 'justice' in the legal system.
"She is hanging on to a fantasy view of her life after D." Yep, she's dyed her hair blond; has a FaceBook thing that she spends a lot of time on, and runs around with our 21 y/o daughter like they are friends instead of mother and daughter. And she's figuring on 'cashing in' big time in the divorce.
On a more pleasant note, my 12 y/o son and I have been spending more time together and things have been going good. Still haven't seen my 13 y/o daughter since we got back from Spring Break. :-(
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
