Couple of things I might need to know how to deal before hand:
1. She made the request to be heard before she knew the affair was exposed to family and OMW. What if the offer to talk is no longer on the table? i.e. she doesn't answer my calls or msgs
2. What if she wants to take control of the agenda, i.e. talk about divorce, Or says this is the last time we see each other so better say whatever is left to say?
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *