Not too much new to update with W. I haven't heard from her since last Thursday. It's been over a week since we communicated with each other and that was by email about the house. She usually emails me every two or three days. I haven't contacted her at all. Her birthday is today. Another tough day to get through not being with my W. I still see her most nights during the week at the gym. No contact though. I continue to give her space. Not much else I can do. My IC thinks that there is progress being made and to remain paitent, so that's what I'm doing.
I've taken a major step in my life. I have enrolled to finish my college degree. It's something that I have always wanted to do. I'm also going for my MBA once I finish my BA degree. I can't wait. I'm looking forward to this new journey.
I'm still keeping busy with work and GAL. I continue to take care of the housework myself. Still go to church every Sunday, meet with IC, and also met with my priest this past week again. Go to gym, walk the dogs, read books, etc. I have maintained all of my changes and continue to improve. I feel pretty good about it too. I feel like my changes are real now. My changes are less work now and come more natural.
If I could have been this new person a couple of years ago I would probably still be with my W. We'll see what the future holds...
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch