http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1991498&page=1
Guys can you give me a view on going dark.My thread is here but having read a few of the last ones,its clear I didnt do what I should.Hadnt found this site of course.I would say the last physical ctc with my H was controlled and the focus was to try and repair his R with our girls.
Thanks apprec ur expertise.


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith