There is an advantage to waiting her out due to your immigration and work situation being affected. These are things you will need to decide. Nobody here is going to be able to make those decisions for you.
I made the decision already that my immigration status won't have to be a part of this. I'll be fine. I'll handle it.
My company supports me and even if they can't do anything I've had so many job offers after this happened like you wouldn't believe. Both here and in two other countries so I don't need her even for that and it makes me feel very good.
Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 04/30/1009:27 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *