WAW and the law of attraction

[Gnosis]

I think you're missing the point with your question:

My question here would be, Contact or no contact if there's nothing left there then, why bother with the rest?

There is GOING to be contact. It is unavoidable. Whether that contact is to take her temperature or to dump her or to decide on the terms of D... It's going to happen, one way or another.

Who initiates and when is the choice you have.

The one who initiates it is going to set the stage and direction of the conversation. When this happens you should be the one who decides the when and where. You can wait for her to initiate contact, which could be anything from today to another six months from now... the way she is behaving right now it looks like the latter - she is having too much fun with her new-found freedom and partying friend. She is too busy to give you a moment's notice. You are at her mercy and whim.

Obviously, there is an advantage to waiting her out due to your immigration and work situation being affected. These are things you will need to decide. Nobody here is going to be able to make those decisions for you.