Piano I agree total cake eater.The name part is difficult.If you did meet someone else in the future then it would be much easier for them to adopt ur daughter if H name wasnt on the birth certificate.(I know this is the furthest thing from ur mind right now).I believe a dad is the person who is there when your child is happy, sad, ill, lost etc etc and that doesnt need to be the birth father.That said you would be holding your head and doing the right thing to have her 'biological' dad on her birth certificate.Not sure what I would do....


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith