I just want to move on with my life. I'm already doing that in many ways. It's just that something in my heart tells me should hear what she's got to say before I take a definitive decision.
I do love my wife but I have absolutely no feelings for the person who has taken her place.
That's the old you, the insecure you, seeking approval in this fashion: "I'm thinking of moving on with my life unless you have some interest in me, do you want to let me know if you are still interested in me or should I move on with my life?"
That's what you sounded like, and again that's just my opinion. But seeking approval or looking to gauge her interest to see if anything is left in her to salvage a relationship with is very insecure, weak, wussy like behavior - definitely not something you should do.
