I understand your point, PMA. And believe me, I've never ever felt SO strong. That's not the problem.
The truth is, I'm not willing to stay in limbo for years, it's not fair and it's not healthy. Not for a person who hasn't showed even the smallest sign of interest.
I just want to move on with my life. I'm already doing that in many ways. It's just that something in my heart tells me should hear what she's got to say before I take a definitive decision.
I do love my wife but I have absolutely no feelings for the person who has taken her place.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *