Game Point

[pigskin]

Your OW will definitely affect how you view your W. In a sense, it is you having an "affair" and being affected by the attention being shown you. I noticed that myself when I went out in a group with a girl I was attracted to. I found myself thinking about her a lot the next day and almost being repulsed when thoughts of my W came up. So yeah, you get to see things how the WAW sees them; that may be helpful.

A little disconcerting that your OW wants to move so quickly - you are pretty vulnerable right now. Getting into a relationship with another woman will create additional complexity in your situation. That may be OK if you have little to no hope of turning it around, but just something to be aware of.