Cat, what I meant was I didn't contact him for over a month and 1/2 when he started the whole thing about being on a dating site, and asking our D13 if I had a BF.

I let it go for that long, and yes you are so right. I blew it. I wasn't thinking at all. I just got so upset and was devestated all over again.

I thought I wasn't suppose to tell him that I wanted to save the M. This is where I get confused.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08