Puppy, those where probably the wron terms. I guess what I am saying is I have a history of not thinking of her needs and being selfish, couldn't my actions of distancing myself be misinterpreted? I know my focus needs to be on myself and bettering me but I don't want her to think that I have given up on our R.
In my situation there is no OM, no A. She is just tired of feeling hurt and rejected. I recognize this and am furiously trying to show her that I can and do have those character traits she loved me for years ago, I just got alittle lost along the way. I don't feel like she has hurt or betrayed me (other than the hurt I feel because she wants to leave).
