Did it again this a.m. FORCED my love upon him.lol. I think this is the right path--the more I think about it, I'm detached anyway (so the grumpy look and deep sigh didn't affect me a bit!lol)
I am trying to come up with a good script because I think he will have a little fit at some point that this isn't what he wants or...something...
But my Dear H, this is not all about you any longer. I have wants and needs also, and a healthy M includes hugs and kisses. I know I must have a script that offers him a choice.
Anyone have an idea?--I wish I was better at this. No wonder my M sucks.
"H, I want someone that accept my hugs and kisses willingly and actually enjoys them. I hope this person one day will be you."
