the old (or current) me is prone to snap and get defensive quickly. Regardless of my hopes for the future, I don't want to perpetuate and continue those attitudes.
Good. A breakthrough! No matter what happens you are going to be a better person. Being defensive and snappish (especially since that is how you have been in the past) is defintely not going to help matters.
You don't need to be defensive or walk on egg shells, but just be sensitive to the fact that even the best actions with the best intentions can be perceived differently by somebody who is thinking about ending a relationship (so don't be shocked if that happens sometimes).
In the end, if it works, good. If it doesn't work, time for something else.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
