Divorce is not convenient for anyone. Kids suffer. There is no getting around it. And yes, if you were wondering, the routine is the same time wise for my house and his whore house. S' new bed time is 8:30 now instead of 7:30. His naps will follow.
I think despite the divorce, the two of us will be watching S and will come to make changes as time goes on based on how S is adjusting.

Sorry but your comment sounded like you were implying that my visitation schedule is not what is best for S.

I don't want my freedom- I want my family. He has to file- he has to burn the house down, I won't do it.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004