That was excellent advice, Bill. You know I've heard it from you before, and so many times since. If could have only reminded myself that two years ago when all this was happening, I would have been farther along now, maybe even divorced. But, I believed in the DB ways and tried to save my marriage. Ho hum, don't practice, don't preach -- know what I mean?
But that was two years ago. That was 2008. This was 2010. Things have come a long way since then. I've learned so much as anyone who has followed my sitch can attest to.
Things have changed ... dramatically.
I just wish you and everyone else would believe that I've moved on. I can't make anyone on these boards believe it, so I'm guessing my sitch may end up going by the wayside eventually because nobody's listening to me except for klm and gardner man. No more sympathy.
What does it take for people to believe? (rhetorical qauestion), I'm not concerned about him anymore, except for his salvation and well being. There, I've said it. And,"True love never dies."
Once again, I would love some feedback on the financial status questions if anyone has some. I welcome your response.
Below:
"Yes, you are right ... I'm no guru when it comes to finances ... I need major help setting up my finances, since I've been living off my credit card for almost two years now."
Please read my last post for more info...
Finding a job is next to impossible right now. I live near a college town and I get passed over for interviews by younger, less experience student graduates. It is what it is. (I apply for 2-6 jobs a week. I received two rejection letters within two hours of applying yesterday, saying I was not qualified. I was amply qualified. (Anyone who wishes to read my cover letters and resume, let me know). This is not whining. This is just stating facts.
Anyway, my atty called me and said I now owe $1,500 in my reserve because it's gone. She told me to sell his guns, which I found are only worth $300. Has anyone ever bought or sold guns?
I emailed her yesterday and told her to stop negotiating with H's atty. No more contact. I'm done!
