Love your advice FG . Reeling, changing little things can really shift where you're at so I encourage you to try what FG is suggesting.
I think I've done #1 but I'm going to try #2 today.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.