Newmama, if you want your freedom, at some point YOU may have to be the one to initiate D. It sucks, but your WH seems to be pretty comfortable with the status quo.
And I'm not suggesting flirting unless you're feeling it.
In our case, visitation is based on the children's routines, not parental convenience. We've found it easier for the children to deal with having dinner & bedtime routine in one home. I think it is hard on them to have to get in the car and make a transition right at bedtime. But I'm sure you'll find your way through this.
You're doing great NM
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
