Took my wife for granted, now she is done. help!

[TimeHeals]

I think if she knew she would say "why did you spend money on those? There is nothing that can be fixed...etc" I know she would be speaking out of hurt but it would be really difficult for me to hear that. On the other hand I have never been invested enough in changing or learning more about how we operate as a couple to get into any of these types of books.

Also, I may have made a mistake. At the store I saw the new book from a series that she likes and bought it for her. Should I give it to her or is that off limits?

Thanks guys.

I think you know the answer: keep the R books to yourself, or it will seem like you are trying to pressure, persue, and fix her too.

As for the other book, why don't you just read it yourself? No need to hide that if it isn't all R stuff. If she asks about it, ask her if she'd like to read it when you are done with it (but then you really, really need to read it).