Ok... mis-read Puppy but the point still was gotten. I need to stop worrying about the consequences or reactions to said boundaries and learn what they need to be. Time indeed smile

I am far from a clear, peaceful place in my head, thus all the proposed soul searching. I need to really get back to understanding what it is I want and need out of things, then I can begin to address my boundary issues. As it stands, I am so volatile these days, I don't trust myself to calmly, rationally think or DO anything. Patience young grasshopper smile

Sorry... bad GH... PM? I think we went over this earlier in the thread but...