Stopped at the bookstore on the way to work and got the divorce remedy and the love languages book.
Do you all suggest having your spouse know you are reading those books or should it be more of a personal thing that they are unaware of?
I think if she knew she would say "why did you spend money on those? There is nothing that can be fixed...etc" I know she would be speaking out of hurt but it would be really difficult for me to hear that. On the other hand I have never been invested enough in changing or learning more about how we operate as a couple to get into any of these types of books.
Also, I may have made a mistake. At the store I saw the new book from a series that she likes and bought it for her. Should I give it to her or is that off limits?
