Excellent advice Bill. I even still post this on others threads: that the only true path to healing or even 'winning back' one's spouse is to let go.

Thanks Bill.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;