Hopefully a new beginning

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FIB....I know my H would have probably told me not to go talk to him...but in my mind it was because he just didnt want to bring it up to him. AFter him getting mad so many times and not doing anything about it, I had decided I was going to. It wasnt to undermine my H, but just something i would have done anyway. It was about standing up for my Son...really had little to do with my H. But I see your point. My H said he told me not to talk to the coach, but I dont recall him saying that last night...maybe a couple of weeks ago...but I really didnt expect the blow up...but most likely it had alot to do when hitting him with something when he was already mad....

Mila, I think if I had waited and done it when my H wasnt mad, like at the next practice he wouldnt have cared...But I would have probably lost my nerve and was ready to say something then.

But like you said after it was over and he werent mad anymore, it was no big deal.

This is something I have to deal with now...My H never got mad like this before our separation. This is a new side of him. Not sure how to handle it. I almost feel like Im just gonna have to be the quiet little wifey for a while. Let my H do the talking. Sorry though after 3 years of doing it on my own, its alot to get use to again.

Thanks for the encouragement though!