FLTC, if you can honestly live with what you are committing to then go for it! But, be careful that it doesn't leave you more bitter and angry in the long run. I know that's hard to guage but just make sure you're decision is not based on emotion versus reasoning. Damn, why couldn't we drop your STBX into Iraq or Afganistan, that mess would be cleaned up just like that. The Taliban would flee pronto! And btw, when you say she hasn't been touched by this divorce sitch, don't you believe it. In the long run this woman will pay in some way for the way she's behaved through this whole thing. I'm serious. It might be years down the road, but she will pay. You will have worked through your issues and pain and be a much a happier person than she could ever be. Hang in there! Over and out. Hey, just to bring a smile to your face I will pass on a war game story. Many moons ago I was on guard duty with another Pvt. and it was at night. We were to challenge anyone who tried to pass our checkpoint and The password was "open flame". So, at one point in the evening someone approached our checkpoint and we demanded the password and he replied "open fire", so we did! OK, it was just blanks but it scared the crap out of him. And yes, we did get sh!t from the Sgt. "you both knew it was Smith, yet you shot at him anyway just for laughs and therefore gave away our position" So, we paid for that one, rightly so. ! Anyway, gotta run. Stay strong my friend, this too shall pass.
