Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
T get this sorted ASAP. Even in England we have something similar to what everyone else describes BUT they will only go after the arrears from when you notified them you wanted them to handle it. So the longer you leave the more money you could potentially never see at all.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I'm so sorry that this is happening. From the man point of view, I will soon have to start paying CS as well and there may be a brief window where I will have difficulty doing it from the financial standpoint. However, it is NOT my intention of becoming a deadbeat dad.
Is it possible that he is having financial issues or is he really doing this to hurt you?
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Faith, He told the kids that since I won't see him or talk with him, there is no sense to send money. He just came back from his 20th vacation since our divorce with OW - cruise. He might have financial problems, but it is only because he is spending like crazy.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
That doesn't make sense, just b/c you won't see him or talk to him doesn't mean his is not responsible for paying CS. Of course, that is where his mind is right now I guess. But, it's crazy!
I think you will have to go after him for it! I don't see how you are going to get it any other way. Don't wait too long, you deserve that money!
