Sandi2, I really do appreciate your help in my situation. My wife and her sister have not been on speaking terms for several weeks. My sister in - law graduated from Dental asst school last night. I picked my father in law up so he could attend. My wife knew of the event but quite honestly I did not think she would attend, but she did. My wife had called me about 2 hrs before the event to see where it was being held. My wife appeared uneasy and I could not tell if it was because of the strain of me or the sister. My wife asked me a few non-specific questions and then said she had to pick up our youngest daughter from dance. I took my father and sisterinlaw out to dinner with my middle daughter. My wife said she could not meet with us. I felt hurt but did not show it. When I got home my wife was upstairs and did not say anything. I then went to the study and my wife came behind me to see what I was doing and asked questions about her sick sister. Sometimes I think she is coming around and other times I am not sure. She spoke to me this morning briefly and then went upstairs and here I am. Thanks for all the help. bobby O
