All this talk about the kids realizing who was the culprit has me thinking of my daughter and whether it is important to me. I am not sure it is as important as it once was. I just try to concentrate on her well being and I am really not sure that her finding out that her mom effed up will make her feel better. My daughter is a little older than your boy BBJ and although she does not have the specifics and hopefully never will, I think she gets the genreal idea of what happened and sees the differences today between mom and dad.
I can't help but notice how Dan keeps you on the hook with his I think about getting back togather everyday.....then he slams you with you did not support him. I have read it here so often that I am almost starting to believe him....
Anyhow, I hope the tornado blew by without too much damage and the sky is sunny and weather warm.
I have not said this in a while but I am pulling for you... still....hope you detach and drop that rope soon and move on with your life. there is more to life than ONE person no matter what your history is.....
