So he clearly thinks the only good relationship is one where you agree on everything all the time.
Correction He clearly thinks "the only good relationship is one where you agree on everything he says all the time." I was matrried to one of htoswe as well. It is not about the tweo of you agreeing, it is about him being right all the time and you knowing that!
Things will work out in the end. There will be times as the kids grow that you wil be able to discuss relationships wth them. They are young now, but in the long run they will see it (and him) for what they are. I have had opportunities to discuss with my kids my beliefs and values. I have clearly stated that I do not believe that divorce is the answer. I don't believe in divorce, yet I am divorced. They know how and why we ended up divorced, nad I did not have to tell them. The truth is there and they will see it.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
