Just had to comment - my WH has an opinion on EVERYTHING!! And then says he has to take on too much, then gets resentful. He stopped eating my cooking and would only cook for himself. He will resent me doing his laundry then do it himself. He will do the gardening that I don't like to do, and then resent that he is doing so much work without "being appreciated"!!
Wow, I didn't know you knew my H. Seriously, what's up with not eating our cooking... like we're going to poison it or something. He will go all day without eating something I made, but if it's in the fridge and everyone else has eaten, he will snack on the cold leftovers after everyone is in bed. Weird. I just decided to make lots of his favorites, just to mess with him. And he actually picks through the laundry basket to pull out ONLY his clothes when he does a load. Takes twice the time to do that, it's silly.
