Morning, Everyone. Well, gosh, didn't expect to get this kind of response, BUT... LOL
Something I wrote, applies to ALL of you here (well, MOST, LOL)... so I'm sure you "get it"
So, the fact that professionally and personally I am surrounded by people that are just plain good, BY CHOICE, is probably intimidating to H.
NOW:
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Well after reading that, all I can say is, too bad for Mr. Mind if he wants you to be the backup dancer because you are not the wind beneath his wings...
BBJ - I had a soda spitting moment over this one. LOL Backup dancer? NOT (NU DANCE TEAM DUH! LOL) That's not who he married. Thank you for truly supporting me, ALWAYS.
Originally Posted By: Coach
Solution: If something is bothering you then it is your responsibility to bring it up.
Coach - AMEN, the man talks non-stop...
[/quote]I am right behind you (well amongst your entourage) Luv Luvs you![/quote]
T, you are right beside me, arm in arm. LUV YA!
CG - HUGS, my wise friend! CONGRATS for leading w/silence... I'm learnin'!
Originally Posted By: ruledworld
Thinking of you lots and knowing you are going to continue to handle yourself with strength and dignity as you have been doing.
Rocked!! My sistah! You truly get me. And, thank you for this. Strength and dignity...? I guess you're right. In a few weeks, the dignity part will be tested. Keep thinkin' strong thoughts.
Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
It sucks and I'm sorry for my remark without understanding.
DLS - Thank you, and a LOL. I tend to shoot first, and ask questions later. It's a wonder I KEEP all of those friendships, eh?
Originally Posted By: Fergie
That's just pure jackass.
Ferg - I wish I would have had this quote in my arsenal many years ago... It would be an appropriate response to ANY of the SNARKY comments he would make... I think I'll adopt it from this moment on... (Hope I don't say it so many times, it becomes ineffective!)
Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
But it's moot since you're done with that tool and on to better men! And all this self-awareness and knowledge will serve you well and help you find a partner who will appreciate you as you are.
Pearl - Done w/that tool! LOL On to better men... Sounds yummy. (YOU HAD BETTER BE FEELING BETTER!!)
Originally Posted By: avermont
As soon as I get my old self back, I will go right on striking up random conversations with people as we meet in the bar, supermarket, trails, subway. A three minute, human being to human being interaction.
Aver - So much of you have written re: history is so ME! My boss OFTEN says... "Ok, MF, WTF? How do you KNOW this stuff about (so and so prospect)?" Beyond the sales speak, three minute, human being to human being interaction is the answer... YUP SHOES? Where?
K - YOU GOT IT! Since H doesn't nurture his friendships, and we're probably a bit obvious (M dissension), he is already being ignored, excluded, etc... a bit from social functions/activity. Can't do anything about that! Can you imagine if they knew what was in the near future's expose?
Originally Posted By: Fergie
[ While she is chatting it up with the party peeps, walk up, put hands/arms around, and brag up her new sales numbers, how she is dressed, or just how wonderful she is..... and mean it. Problem solved. You get what you give. --Fergie
Ferg - Maybe I have had too long of a drought, but I read this and had thoughts of ERASEERASE. LOL But, you're right. And, in my own defense, I HAVE verbalized this (and, of course, not in a bitchy way). No positive response. But, you're invited to a party w/me any day.
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
/I've never punched anyone in the nose //But there's a first time for everything ///He deserves it.
Jeff, you're the best. I'd pay really good money to view this. So, I'll tape it, and we'll post it on my fb page. Can you imagine the number of views? HUG
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.