Morning! Good luck for your Dad today K, but then you have to wait for the results hey, it must be so hard to see him go through these treatments.
I didnt understand the voice recorder part, I must have missed something. I'm not sure why H didnt want to arrange something, but he does still work hard hey and you once said to me he has NO time for normal life, seeing family friends or just doing chores, going to shops to buy toiletries, shirts etc, just downtime. You get more of that (its his choice I know!) so maybe he just doesnt want to commit to a day out on his precious day off. In other words, it might not be about you. I can see its disappointing for you and you need and hope for more connection.
I was thinking, it may come.. rememner you kept posting that you would never ML, you couldnt see it happenong, you were convinced he didnt fancy you... well look at you two now kiddo!! So the same could be true for this perceived lack of connection. Unfortunately for you, H is just very very slow isnt he, but like the tortoise and the hare, he gets there eventually xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread