My situation is not exactly the same as yours, but I think some generalities can be taken in regard to reactions of husbands and wives.
Similar to your situation, my wife did not mention anything about job stuff at first either. What I discovered, though, was that she had grown angry about it over time, but had never really told me it bothered her. I have not experienced unemployment, but had changed jobs a few times and brought home less money each time.
