Another important thing to bring up is that my employment status didn't come up hardly at all before a few days ago, and when it did before her 'I'm done' speech, it wasn't like she seemed angry or even particularly blameful or anything. The reason I think it might be displaced blame is because when she gets off the phone with her parents or after her daughter talks to her particularly badly, she seems to snap at me a lot in the past few months. I just kinda accepted it, thinking that was like altruistic or something. In hindsight, I think I just made myself easy to blame or something. I'm just clueless and trying to figure out where this is going. I love her very much.

Last edited by Bummedout; 04/30/10 06:07 AM.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.