I have some questions. Did you need to ask those questions? Would it have been better to let her iniate whether she wanted you to have more separation or sleep in another location. Could you have asked her what would help to keep her from sleeping the kids room. What was the third thing you asked her about? Or did the conversation end before you brought that up to your W?
You seem to give good advice to many on this forum. What advice would you give yourself now? I know you will find how to turn this situation to a positive. Could you suggest that you will follow as she requested for something you would like her to do in the remaining 8 days of the trial separation without making her defensive.
Turn this near breakdown into an opportunity. There are stil options and alternatives.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
