Giving her stuff to read, or otherwise trying to get her to "see the light" will be seen as pursuing. Just don't! She will be repulsed by more pursuit and you will be seen as controlling.
Be mysterious. Go out on your own. Stop worrying about how she will react to it.
This DB stuff is counter-intuitive. It will feel wrong, but if you believe nothing else, please believe that by trying to hold on to her tighter, she will slip through your fingers.
Leave her alone right now. Do your own thing. Read other posters sitches here.
And there is one more thing: This forum has lots, well some, posters who keep asking for good advice, and then refuse to consider it. When that happens, a lot of us realize that the advice is falling on deaf ears, so we give up posting on those particular threads.
