Exposure

[WhatNow]

I can't imagine doing it for long...or at least well. But after a messy confrontation, it will provide a path back.(I do NOT mean pursual...I mean 180 and other DB techniques) Since I went dark, I hear "I miss you" and "It's hard to be away from you". Time will tug on the 24 year attachment.

Exposure did the most damage, but not enough for me.

I remember during exposure, H asked me what I was doing. "It is nobody else's business," I replied, very calmly, " I am fighting for my M. If you were drinking or on heroin, I would do the same thing." He couldn't respond to that.

"Phil McGraw was more than willing to talk relationship talk with this woman who he caught lying to him more than once. He hit her hard and fast with everything he had... and i do believe he made some impact.

If he tried that alone with her I honestly don't think it would have worked.. having her husband and daughters there made a huge diff I think..."

And the audience helped too. I think she has herself believing her own pile, is in such deep denial, rationalization, justification, it will take daily confrontations like that to get thru to her, WHILE being completely cut off from her family. I hope he does a follow-up.





Leno was really funny, makin' fun of Hunter tonite....