Her attitude was not like this before the affair. It is progressively becoming worse. She just doe not give a sh!t it seems about what I think. She go the opposite of what I think just to P!ss me off. It does not work as much these days, because I do not get too angry. Only sometimes.
LSG,
They "jump" off our anger. So if you can stay calm it really helps. Mine got progressively worse too. So you "get treated like dirt"? Before mine was stepping out on me, she treated me so well and complemented me through her body language, her actions, her eyes and her voice. Today each of those is opposite, I'm disrespected and torn down through her body language, her actions, her eyes and her voice. However very recently she is attempting to bridge a gap as a friend, and appears to be a non-sexual one. We are going to marriage counseling though.
Mine goes against me too, and everything I ask of her is met with usually "no" and if not "I'll think about it".
I think the MC is going to help because its a lady. Oh and some other non-violent solutions to breaking the affair is to report them to the "cheaters" series or the "Dr Phil Show".
I hope yours go well, but as you know that its alot harder to have any effect with the affair partner in the loop and any friends which are supporting her cheating on you.
