So here's a nutshell scoop from my sitch that you can see if something helps in regard to yours....
I did pursue early on and it did not help. Made my W even more mad. I was about the last person she wanted to see or discuss our situation with. When we did talk, she was mad.
Go forward a couple of months and we are talking on the phone. She is a little more talkative with me than usual and we end up deciding to go to lunch together. We end up having a long talk. Evidently she was finally ready to have this talk with me.
As we are talking, the one thing that sticks out to me as I am listening to her is stuff about financial goals and job stuff.
When we were done talking, whether I agreed with all of it or not, at least I knew what her perspective was and I could react accordingly. So today, my employment situation is improving and we are in MC together.
So that's where my personal perspective comes from in regard to WAW and financial stuff.
