Piano, I am sorry sweetie. I sense you are feeling low right now (understandably so). You are under a tremendous amount of stress and IT IS NOT FAIR. But I want to offer some comfort in the fact that if your WAH chose to not be involved at first and later wanted to be, your daughter could still bond with him. The first few months the baby will barely know you exist other than her food source and comfort. When she is a few months old she will recognize that you are her mother. And then if your WAH is involved by that point (he very well could be-babies change people, Piano) there is still time for her to bond with him. Take care and check in with us. (((hugs)))
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
