Yeah I had a mini-fight with him after kids went to bed...Screw it I am done trying anyway...
I told him I couldn't believe his reasoning, I didn't want Nathan to dump every girl he dates the first time he has a disagreement bc he has learned that relationships = no disagreements.
Dan retorted that he didn't want Nathan to believe there should be no disagreements but he better find someone who actually supported his dreams. I called bullshit and said we'd never see that eye to eye bc I have spent years supporting him. He said "Yeah the past three years but I don't care cause that was too late"
I said well then you are an ass for all the texts even tonight about how you are truly struggling with the thought of actually trying again when you aren't and haven't been interested in reconciling in years, according to you now!"
He replied, "I do think about it I think about it ever single day but then this happens"...meaning our fight
So he clearly thinks the only good relationship is one where you agree on everything all the time.
Good luck with that, maybe a blow up doll will always agree with you.
Yeah I am so done trying to get anywhere with him he can live in his messy house and have his breakdowns and deal with it.
Oh btw we are still in warnings but I am hiding in the basement!
