I suppose I should be more specific. Anyone have any relevant experience in this matter. Should I ask about it when she gets home? Shouldn't I? Why or why not?
Further, I have no doubt that the payments and my jobless status is part of the conversation, and no doubt will be the PRIMARY justification for the negative crap.
Frankly, if the situation were reversed, I wouldn't even give these things a second thought with regard to respect or to assign blame. It might help to point out I'm not a deadbeat laying around the house. I'm picking up a little work here and there on the side, getting a lot done around the house, both the "man stuff" and household duties. Did that before anyway, but moreso now, since I have the free time. I am bringing some money in, but it's sporadic, and not half of what I was making.
I suppose what I'm looking for is how to broach this topic. It seems kinda silly to simply "do or say or ask nothing" She's so "internal" anyway, I'm definitely the communicator in our relationship. I do care, and I know she knows this, it's one of the things that she liked about me that led to our dating.
From a "think about what I'll do if I'm single soon" perspective too, actually. It might be nice to at least get some sort of a "heads up" as to where this is headed. For all I know I could be served papers tomorrow.
Starting to think coming here might have been yet another error on my part. Sorry for wasting ya'll's time.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.
