Given what is going on in the M I think no locks is a very reasonable request. Why should you have to lock the door for "mental clarity"? Hmmm......
Just a quiet space.
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Seperation to me is a form of rejection, esp. if only one person wants it. I dont' get that....
Neither do I. But then again, I wasn't the one who asked for a D and/or a separation 12x in the past 7 months, mostly in the past 3 months.
Even now, when I am asking, I'm not asking for much. Limited time to de-stress and get caught up on work, my work on the problem she wants stopped, and some other GAL stuff. And I wouldn't ask for that if the 12th time she asked hadn't totally stabbed me.
