Some of the rest of ya, thanks for your input. One or two . . . why post stupid crap like that? "Think about what it'll take to make you happy when you're single . . . jerk. I'm guessing you aren't Doctor Phil.
Feel better after calling people names? Is that really necessary? Look, like it or not, you need to think about what would make you happy if you were single.
Nobody is telling you to give up on your marriage. They (and I) are telling you that you cannot control your wife. The only person you CAN control is yourself, and you are going to need to work on that.
When Whoopi Goldberg's character on "The Color Purple" was explaining to "Harpo" how to control his wife. "I's just can't control her", Whoopi said "beat her". LOL. I'm not endorsing violence, just trying to make lite of attempting to control or have a better position in a situation thats out of your control.
You CAN control your wife - IF SHE ALLOWS IT and vice-versa. You see sometimes we relinquish control on purpose, and in certain area's we may let one spouse always control it, and others the other.
