No I never meant I would tell them his screwups, I just could not believe that he would give that as the reason. But again it shows how differently we see things. If you ask me we are getting divorced because he was unwilling to accept me faults and all and commit to building a better marriage. If you ask him we are getting divorced because I am irritating and don't support him and will never change and he can't take it anymore....
It just pisses me off to know that I was in fact willing to move past his infidelities and lies to build a solid relationship and intact family for our kids, and he was not willing to overlook a messy kitchen.
Not to mention his house looks like a bomb went off, so pot meet kettle. I am just so disgusted but I will continue to love my kids and tell them and show them my love for them every day.
