Thank you George Clooney (aka Mr. Fox) for giving me the term clustercuss...
I am livid but I will calm down. The sonofabitch threw me under the bus in my opinion...He started sending me bullsh!t texts again before I came over about how he hated this, had an upset stomach, etc. That he hated telling the kids, he wondered if it could be worth it to try again but he just didn't know how it could work, he didn't regret us bc we have two great kids but maybe we weren't meant to be, etc etc. That this would forever affect the kids but so would living in a home full of tension.
I replied that I was on my way over...
When I get there Nathan is playing Wii. After a few minutes Dan calls him over and sits him on his lap, Sydney comes and gets on my lap. He starts talking about how mom and dad have lived apart for a year.
He tells them that mommy and daddy disagree on things like when to go to bed at night and how to keep the house clean...that they fought when they lived together but they don't anymore and things are better this way so it is going to stay this way forever. But it will be good because see how much fun you have at daddy's house doing things with daddy and at mommy's house with mommy.
Sydney moved right on and asked for a pop tart. Nathan cried and Dan held him for about 15 minutes. We both told him how much we loved him. I was shaking I was so angry though.
I never said a word about him f@cking other women, lying, cheating, etc etc. And I never would. And yet he tells them we are getting divorced over bedtimes and cleaning? But then I figure in his mind that is why we are getting divorced...
I just do not want Nathan and Sydney thinking that if you have disagreements you have to get divorced. What a ridiculous reason...
