Thanks Kimmie, That's what I'm doing for now if for no other reason than trying to be "controlling" wouldn't work anyway, in all likelihood. Problem is . . .I'm also well aware that "doing nothing" isn't really much better of a game plan.
To be honest, I don't even know what becoming mysterious really means. Thanks for the quick reply!
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.