I should also point out that the "friends" my first wife took advice from had never even met me, and my 'new' wifes friend barely knows me, we've met maybe 10 times and spent maybe a total of 4 hours around each other, and generally got along pretty well, but my Wife seems to almost think of her as a guru or something.
I just don't know what to do. Just letting it happen seems like a bad idea (not that I could stop it anyway without being a total jerk, or even then, really). . .but I learned in my first divorce that I'm not real great at knowing good ideas from bad ones on matters like this. Please help, I hate "tomorrow" right now.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.
