Today's update - Had a meeting with H at Starbucks. We mainly talked about business, luckily things are improving a bit, we are getting more contracts in. Deep hole to climb out of though. This year will be a challenge. At least H seams to be more focused on it.

He appeared less gloomy. Still no direct talk about us or plans for the future. He doesn't bring it up and I hold my tongue.

I got a compliment on my new jewelery.

I'm signing up for a new gym with D and H wants to sign up with us to get the family rate.

Asked him what are his plans for his dad's B-day that's coming up. Said that he's been thinking about what to get him, but doesn't know. Then he said "You always got his presents and you are so good at it, do you think that you can go tomorrow and get him something?" I agreed.

Later he called me and said that there is a B-Day dinner planned at his dad's on Sunday. I said that D is working. He got all uptight and said that she has to change her shift. I told him to talk to her. (BTW he never told his dad what's happening with us, so it will be "pretend that we are a happy family")

When D came home from work today she said that H came to her workplace and had a heated exchange with her boss about changing her shift. D said that her boss was upset that D didn't talk to her about it instead of sending her dad. Poor D didn't even know about the planned B-Day dinner or that H was coming there. This incident just shows me that he still does weird things.


Last edited by Mila; 04/30/10 03:11 AM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO