Given what is going on in the M I think no locks is a very reasonable request. Why should you have to lock the door for "mental clarity"? Hmmm......

OTMT- women find sex very bonding and emotional. There actually is an oxitocin release for women. So of course after sex she would feel lots of emotion for you. I think you should recind the seperation if she wants to.
How is a seperation going to heal the marriage? Seperation to me is a form of rejection, esp. if only one person wants it.

I dont' get that....


Anyhow, good luck with everything.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)