Ruled if you look at my signature line you will see that my hubby told me he hated me about a thousand times. That and he would never even want to be friends with me. He had a pretty thick wall but I saw actions that showed different.
Listen to everyone here- his feeling nothing is just his depression. I really don't believe for one second that he does not love you.

I would also have to think that guilt is killing him right now. How could it not?


I do believe you are right though. You have been MORE than accommodating and he now needs to man up and work on himself. He needs to do his part to maintain the relationship.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)